The Truth About Adoption and Abortion


Every year in the United States there are more than 1.2 million Abortions.

Every year in the United States there are 1.4 million waiting to Adopt.

I recently had a conversation with someone about a woman’s right to CHOOSE. (This was a gentleman) In light of the Planned Parenthood videos that had been circulating. There are some people totally unaware of the things on these videos and have no idea what Planned Parenthood provides and does not provide, and have no insight or knowledge about the results, outcomes and how a woman really feels when she chooses abortion. This particular gentleman said : “When I see NO children in orphanages, and Foster Care, maybe I will change my mind on Abortion. ‘YOU’ people should be adopting these children.” As I began to share with him, I could tell he was pretty set in his heart on this issue, no matter how misinformed he was.

There are more than 360,000 families waiting to adopt on any given day in the U.S. – PEOPLE/Families ARE adopting. There are over 300,000 children in Foster/adopt care, and less than 100,000 are available or released by the courts to be adopted.


The system is broken and needs to be fixed!  It is not easy to adopt from the Foster Programs.

The PP slogan has been “Every baby a Wanted Baby” because child abuse is high. There is NO link between abuse and a child that was ‘saved’ from the hands of an abortionist. In fact the abuse rate is highest among those who “WANTED” that child.  Abuse is a heart issue.

I too once believed many lies about Abortion.  I didn’t KNOW they were babies. I thought as I was told, they were blobs of tissue and would not become a baby until about 20 weeks.


This is a 12 week ‘BABY’ in the womb.

I have since opened my heart and eyes to the truth. A baby will never be anything else but a baby, a person or human being. It’s all the same! From conception to birth to old age. Just as a girl can never be anything other than a girl, no matter how much you surgically alter her. Her DNA will never be anything else. A baby will always be a person. No mater what age.

I am sad that the education of Planned Parenthood has since the early 60’s been in our schools brain washing and ‘teaching’ our children that first of all ‘sex’ should be experimented with at an early age, that multiple sexual partners of any sex is the best practice. That birth control will help you solve the issue of pre-marital, multiple sex partners, pregnancies and life issues. PP makes billions of dollars on STI/STD Testing, Abortions and birth control.

If birth control was as effective as it is said to be. why are Abortions still even being done in the U.S.?   STI/STD Testing and treatment has skyrocketed in the U.S. There are 19 million new STI/STD cases each year,  14-24 year old’s  making up nearly 50% of those cases. Most all cases of STI/STD’s are the result of multiple sexual partners or it may only take one sexual encounter as the STD rate soars.  Many of these have NO CURES. Birth Control pills and hormones have now been linked to Brain cancer, increased risks of ectopic pregnancies, sterility, and many other symptoms. Yes, I have seen the articles that say there are benefits to Birth Control for women. I have seen reports of the negative effects. Lets look at the consequences, good and bad.

In Boulder County at the Boulder County Reservoir the hormone levels from Birth Control pills was so high that the male fish had turned into female. (This is not just a Boulder phenomenon). The effects on our environment  is devastating. Even if you do not care what happens to a woman’s body, many will care about our environment! (SAD)


Are you ready for a child, emotionally, financially?

Are you willing to contract and live with a life threatening STI/STD?

Are you ok if this person is never in your life again if you become pregnant?

Are you willing to take a life to live yours the way you would like?

Did you know there is help and support for you if you do have an unplanned, or unexpected pregnancy?

As an advocate for Life and Pregnancy Care Centers, I SEE the devastation to especially women, but in boys and men as well when an unexpected pregnancy happens, or an STD is contracted from someone who has lied to you about their health, or was unaware of the risk they were putting their partner at. A lifelong or life threatening disease is not worth a moment of heated passion. (Sex). A moment is not worth the risks of thinking Abortion is your answer. There are so many studies out on depression, suicide, sickness, etc that is attached to the risky behaviors of pre-marital sex. But it is still your life, no matter how long or short. Actually it can affect many lives. Every choice we make effects not just ourselves but many lives. (Your partner, family, the child you may conceive….)

AND YES, people, young adults can and are WAITING to have sex. Though many repeat the lie that you cannot expect someone to ‘wait’ to have sex until they are married?  I see MANY who have waited and are happy they did. If you are meant to be with a person, you will learn how to make each other happy, even in bed.

Truth is 57% of young teens and adults are waiting. (AND YOU THOUGHT EVERYONE WAS ‘DOING’ IT!)


I personally have nephews in my life that have been adopted. I am so amazingly blessed by them and by the sacrifice their birth mothers/fathers made to allow us to be blessed with them in our families. I am equally blessed that their parents chose to bring another couples child into our family to love and nurture and care for, and to bless our family.

Working for life I hear often: “I would rather KILL my baby than choose adoption. Yes, they call it a baby.  We all know it is a baby. But much of the time it is only called that when the baby is wanted. We may try to distance ourselves from the life of a child by calling it a fetus,(little one) or blob of tissue. It’s a baby, a human being, a child.

 We have many families waiting to Adopt. Adoption is a choice that brings life to not just your child, but to a family that has prayed for, waited, paid thousands of dollars to be on a list, for a child. What a sacrificial, amazing gift a woman can make to bless another family. I wish I had been so brave and had known the truth about Adoption and the truth about Abortion.

Adoption options are made by the birth mother. She is the one who gets to choose the parents if she wishes. She decides if she wants to have an open, semi open, closed, familial adoption. She can be a part of the amazing life she conceived and gifted to a family. I have seen it work, over and over and over. A love story that never ends. It has changed so much over the years. You are no longer ‘giving away your child’ but able to be a part of that child’s life in some way, as the birth mom. You will be gifting someone else with the gift of parenthood.

Birth Mothers are counted among my heroes, along with adoptive parents. 



Connie Weiskopf Ministries *  * 720-308-4333

P.O. Box 842 Firestone, CO 80520


About Connie

Author, Artist and Minister of The Word. I am blessed to have found God's healing that has changed my life. My book, "FOREVER CHANGED' records these experiences to help encourage others in their quest for LOVE, TRUTH, and HEALING. Go to my web I am also able to share this as a Keynote speaker at events and gatherings. I have a video available documenting my story. Produced by Andrew Wommack Ministries.
This entry was posted in "Forever Changed", Author, Book, Choice Seeds, Devotionals, Devotionals, Healing, Pro Life Speaker, Pro-Life, Speaker and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s